However, the mother's efforts proved to be partially in vain.
Sonia grew up as a headstrong girl who rarely listened to her mother's advice. Thus, she decided everything for herself, including her marriage.
As reported:fakta.today
At the age of 25, Sonia told her mother, Alexandra, that she had married Anatoly. The man was twelve years older than Sonia and had a previous common-law marriage, from which he had a daughter.
Despite the circumstances, they didn't deter Sofia from rushing into this marriage.
Her mother tried to convince her daughter that Tolya was completely unsuitable for her. She asked her not to rush into such an important step, but the daughter didn't want to listen.
Alexandra, deeply concerned about what she perceived as Sonia's impulsive action, had no choice but to accept it.
To avoid disrupting the young family, Sasha, as Alexandra is often called, left their apartment and moved in with her elderly mother.
Officially, the apartment remained in Alexandra's name, as she didn't want to go through the registration process again.
In case of divorce, Sonia would have a place to stay due to insurance reasons. Since then, the family has been in conflict, and mother and daughter have fought several times a day whenever they met.
It all started with Sonia's request to have the apartment donated to her, where she lived with Anatoly and his young son, but her mother disagreed. The explanation that it was for the well-being of Sofia and the child didn't help.
Soňa began to resent her mother, shouting and accusing her of selfishness for intruding into her family. She even expressed her desire to divorce Anatoly because of her mother. Sasha now has very limited communication with her son-in-law, as there seems to be no common ground between them.
Anatoly believes that his mother-in-law can only scold him, throw dirt at him, and turn Sofia against him. And Anatoly himself doesn't mind criticizing his wife's behavior.
This doesn't sit well with the daughter's family, and they regularly put pressure on the mother, trying to force her to sign over the apartment.
Just recently, Sonia spoke with her grandmother, with whom Sasha currently lives, about her living situation and convinced the elderly woman to give the apartment to her granddaughter's family.
When Alexandra found out what her own daughter was doing behind her back, she finally decided to have a serious conversation with her.
This conversation put everything into perspective.
Sonia accused her mother of leaving her without a father and claimed that she doesn't know what normal family relationships should be like. Hence, she chose this behavior pattern where her husband is king and God.
Her husband's opinion will always be the only truth and correctness for her. Now, at the age of 35, Sonia has told her mother that neither she nor her grandson need her, and she has cut off all communication with Alexandra.
It hurts, and it hurts the mother deeply. She did a lot for her child, giving her everything, but received such ingratitude in return.
I don't want to judge or justify anyone in this story!
However, I still repeat: If you do something for your loved ones, never expect gratitude, because if you don't receive it, you will likely be disappointed!
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